The Gentle Art of Returning to the Rhythms of Home

 As I purposfully seek to return to the gentle rhythms of home, I find myself drawn back to the age-old rituals that tether us quietly to place, season, and purpose. 

There’s a particular kind of peace in the doing—kneading dough, preserving fruit, watching something transform through the work of your hands.

The Joy of Strawberry Jam

This past week, the supermarkets have been overflowing with strawberries. While going to a pick-your-own farm is a lovely activity to do, it is not always practical to fit in around the other tasks and commitments of everyday life. 

So I am taking advantage of the bumper berry crop that is coming through our supermarkets at the moment and popped a large tray of strawberries into my shop this week, earmarked to be transformed into some delicious homemade jam. 


There is something wonderfully satisfying about watching those ruby red berries yield their sweetness, filling the kitchen with the scent of early summer.

I used a simple recipe—just fruit, sugar, and a touch of lemon juice—and found the process calming, contemplative even. There’s a kind of ministry in the making of jam: the careful stirring, the watching and waiting, the little ceremony of pouring it into warm jars. 


It felt like a declaration that the slower, domestic arts still have a place in a world that rushes on. A quiet protest, perhaps, or maybe just a sweet way of coming home to oneself.

The Sourdough Saga (So Far)

Now, not all my domestic adventures have gone quite so smoothly. I’ve been attempting to grow a sourdough starter. Let’s just say... it's been more of a lesson in humility than success thus far.

Despite following trusted instructions, keeping it warm, feeding it regularly, and peering at it far too often, the starter remains stubbornly uninspired. 

Still, I’m not giving up. There’s something beautiful about the process of trying, failing, and trying again. Perhaps the Lord teaches us perseverance in such things—the quiet resolve to keep at the good work, even when the fruit is slow in coming.

Learning New (Old) Skills

One of the things I love most about homemaking is that there is always something new to learn. Whether it’s preserving, baking, mending, or growing—there’s a lifelong education to be found within these walls. In embracing traditional skills, we’re not just reviving lost arts; we’re anchoring ourselves and our families to rhythms that nourish body and soul.

I find that the more I lean into this way of living, the more connected I feel—to creation, to my family, to the Creator Himself. These are not “small” tasks; they are sacred ones. There is wisdom in the work of our hands, and joy in growing capable and resourceful in our own homes.

A Freezer Full of Cinnamon Buns

Another small victory this week was in the form of cinnamon buns. I’ve been experimenting with making a batch, allowing them to prove, and then freezing them in their ready-to-bake state. 

The idea is to be able to take them out and bake from frozen—fresh buns, no fuss. I confess, this is not my own brilliant idea! Rather, it comes after a visit to a beautiful farm shop in North Wales. 

Along with their lovely ready-meal selection, they had tubs of loose ready-to-bake frozen pastries. Seeing that inspired me to build up my own stash of ready-to-bake pastries.

It works wonderfully. On slower mornings or when guests are visiting, I can simply pop a tray into the oven, and the scent of cinnamon and dough fills the house as though I’ve been baking for hours. It feels like a gift to my future self. I highly recommend giving it a try if you're looking to bring a little more ease into your baking routine.

There’s a loveliness in these quiet returns—to homemade things, to hopeful beginnings, to imperfect attempts that still bring joy. Whether it’s jam bubbling on the stove or dough rising by the window, each task is an invitation to re-root ourselves in the steady beauty of home.

So if, like me, you’re sensing the pull to re-engage with the gentle arts of the home, follow it. Make the jam. Bake the bread (or at least try). Honour the ordinary and sacred alike. There’s no rush—just rhythm.

With warmth and jam-scented blessings,
Shirley x

A Journaling Freebie For You

Hello my lovely friends!

The weather has finally broken in our neck of the woods and we have had some lovely rain which is a welcome relief for the garden. I have to say that I have missed the lack of rain! I love listening to it falling and the way the earth smells as the rain hits the soil. Don't get me wrong, I have loved all this sunny weather. It means we have had no slug issues this year and it looks like we are going to have a bumper strawberry and apple crop this year!


I've noticed that the Elderflower is out already so I plan on taking a walk along the nearby canel tomorrow after church to collect flower heads so that I can make a lovely Elderflower Cordial, a
seasonal activity that I love to do each year.

Following my post earlier this week (Finding Your Way Back Home), I have continued to focus on the little things that lead me back to a life of peace, contentment, purpose and grace. I have realised that it is easier said than done as we humans tend to operate on the established 'tracks' forged in our brains.

Charlotte Mason spoke about the physical tracks that are created in our brains when we establish a new habit. It is what makes breaking a bad habit so difficult. We physically have to choose to take a more purposful course of action and do so repeatedly until a new 'track' is forged. This is definantly a topic I will come back to on this blog.

I have always found the process of journaling through any challenging times to be very helpful. It helps me to take swirling washing machine of thoughts in hand and pick them out one by one to create some sort of order. So I created this little journal with 10 prompts to help explore a gentle return to the slower and sacred rhythm to my home and life.

The prompts are designed to encourage reflection, to pause and return to the heart of your home and heart. I am using one prompt a day to allow time to really ponder on the topic and examin my heart.

I am finding the process so theraputic and helpful that I thought you may like to download my A Gentle Return Journal to use if you wish. This is a resource aimed at the Christian woman so I appreciate that it will not be helpful to everyone. But if you would like to use it please do.

I'd love to hear if you are in a season of change or just pondering on what it is that truly brings you peace, contentment and joy. Perhaps you have already travelled this road and have some thoughts that would be good to consider. Please do let me know in the comments.

Enjoy the rest of your weekend and I shall see you back here next week.